Husband is a misogynist who doesn't think lesbian sex is real sex. EmphasisExisting54. This would destroy any trust i had in my spouse permanently. I met Connor through Jacob. I have a SIL, “Alison”, who is married to my brother “Harvey”. ADMIN. AITA for wanting my husband to cancel his trip he been planning for 4 years. AITA for letting my husband leave and ruining MIL's family photos? Not the A-hole. Jun 7, 2022 · The now-viral Reddit post, titled, "AITA for telling my dad and brother they should try begging my husband for forgiveness," has been upvoted 15,700 times, garnering 600 comments since it was We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Husband is now freaking out, because his wife had sex with one guy, and calling her a whore. Even if my husband made all the money in the world? I still wouldn't want to stay at home. trigger warnings: suicide, assault, animal cruelty. We moved into a smaller apartment, had to sell many things and give up most of our "costly" habits. AITA for dropping my friends for revealing my husband's infidelity? I've known for years that my (44F) husband (49M) cheats on me. In April he was on a business trip for a few weeks, while I held down the fort (working remotely while taking care of baby). 27K votes, 1. In my husband's family, there is a tradition of naming a baby before it is born. I instantly got a bad vibe from Living-Artichoke-315. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I showed up to my husband's dr appointment. AITA I want nothing to do with BFF’s cheating husband. Your husband it’s truly vile to say what he did and that alone is grounds to end your marriage. So I knew it was true. Not every working mom is working because their husband doesn't make enough cash, and even if you make a cool million there's no guarantee you'll have a stay at home wife. Vote and comment on others' posts. AITA for blowing up on my husband over chicken alfredo? Not the A-hole. My husband is finally gonna be able to leave within 2 month, the We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. (2) I might be the ah for sitting in his lap as it was precieved as inappropriate during a family dinner at the table, MIL is upset saying I ruined thanksgiving for her and her guests. That's so sad. Be clear that if you wanted to really cause damage to her and her families you wouldn't just shown it to your husband but shared it everywhere. His cousin Martin (m38) lost his wife to cancer 6 months ago. God parents doesn't mean anything in 2023. Also need to check her credit history to see how many cards he's opens up in her name for his parents to use. SILs visit MIL at least once a week and help out with things like house cleaning and gardening. Me (f33) and my husband Chris (m36) planned a one week vacation to an out of state ski resort with our 2 kids. He said he had no time to cook, and takeout was off the table since he doesn't want them to eat fast food. And your husband in the eyes of God and the law is your first family and first priority. After that we got invited to eat. I’m willing to bet she didn’t stop to think of a way to screw her DIL over and just grabbed what was available. We've been married for almost a year (together for 3) this is our first christmas as married couple. I (25 f) and my husband (27 m) went to his sister’s 13th birthday party this weekend. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i ignored my husband after he didn’t respond to me in the hospital. AITA for searching my husband's pants without asking him first? Not the A-hole. A girl. AITA for exposing my cousin’s creepy husband to my entire family? Not the A-hole. MIL just lost her husband and is just trying to get her family there. AITA For Deciding Not To Let My Husband Into The Delivery Room? Not the A-hole. My husband has a big family, 4 sisters and a brother, and they are all very close. AITA for giving my late husband's brother and his kids 3 days to move out? Not the A-hole. What your husband is doing isn’t frugality, it’s being a shitty person. I live in his house that he owned (still haven't done anything concerning inheritance) his brother lost his job and place and moved in with me a week ago. Confused, the name is pronounced This absolutely because my sister had a separate account in the same bank as her husband. It is common for parents to help and facilitate the day. Help keep the sub engaging! My husband and I got there together. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. But they dont nurture you, care for you and help you raise kids for twenty years. AITA for not waking my husband up for his 5AM walk? Not the A-hole. (1) I sat on my husband's lap and made dinner awkward for the host, MIL and possibly family. Memes allowed, shitposts only on weekends. Your brother is right though - family does come first. Maybe you should delete this post, for your safety. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. He'll be so embarrassed that he'll never go with them again. Taking the posts seriously is heavily discouraged. I grew up with a single mother who worked night shift at a motel. AITA for telling my husband to stop disrespecting our surrogate? Not the A-hole. For context: My f28 husband m33 comes from a wealthy family and he himself has inherited a number of assets from his relatives. AITA for making my husband choose between me and his son? - 5 June 2020. No, I’m not using Reddit as a poll for whether or not to leave my marriage. Good luck OP. I (22f) met my cousin’s husband (24f and 26m) last July for their wedding. they were so close and are always in agreement but that changed once Jacob's fiancee "Rachel" ca Op is a great mom, and went overboard (in a good way),first to convince her husband and second to endure her husband's blaming, and having her daughter living away from her, cause I believe she knew all along, once free and safe, her daughter wouldn't come back. Your husband has a full bank account with thousands while your left with nothing. I (38F) am married to my husband (42M) we’ve been together since our early twenties and have three small children (all under 10) He’s a mechanic and works anywhere from 60 to 80 hours a week, while I work as a hostess 3 days a week at a restaurant while the kids are at I flew last week and both my flights were sold out. Tell him the two of you need to get into therapy. NTA, he's clearly gaslighting you and probably trying to starve you to death. Husband himself was a MASSIVE manwhore who fucked "half the girls in school" The giggly "best friend" who loves to spill your business to your husband. Me: “nah we should save the money, it’s no big deal”. 6 year olds and toddlers can’t be responsible for celebrating their parents. He offers to go for walks with me or watch the little one for an hour so I can do some yoga during the day instead of after he’s gone to bee. NTA. I made it my goal to give my kids a better life. She wants to name her daughter Krxstxl. Original post. Her husband is the devil this woman is struggling with a devil husband and what to do about it give her some time geez. NTA X1000. We were busy getting everything done legally, we already had a contract in place. He requested our finances to be split. My husband works full time and gets an okay- salary BUT he's tightened the grip on spending for the past 4 months to be able to save up to go watch the football event overseas. UPDATE: AITA For Wanting To Divorce My Husband For Wanting A Son? I didn't expect to have an update so soon, but after reading everyone's comments I decided to take action immediately and went to my brother's house. Two of our biggest wants/goals were he wanted a stay at home wife when we r/AmItheAsshole. Some ask me for an update, so here it is. AITA for going off on my soon-to be Husband for returning my wedding dress? Not the A-hole. We (but mostly I) have been planning this for months. They were also over last week and the week before. throwawayjuly2222. •. This evening, I made a scene in front of my husband's family while they ate dinner at our house. He's eating 3 cheeseburgers to bulk up for a new side woman who has a thing for large men. A NTA verdict sometimes equates to burning the other person at the stake. The name is embroidered onto a blanket that has I (f36) have been married to my husband (m42) for 2 years. I (27F) have been married to my husband (29M) for 5 years. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. I am now 8 months pregnant, almost 9 with a girl. ) Avery has always been hostile towards me, and blamed me for his parents’ divorce, despite his dad not meeting me Wild_You_3661. 28th! OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I could be the asshole by refusing to giving my dead husband's affair partner his personal belongings for their unborn child. Our children are 6 and under. These walks would take about 2 hours, Side note to mention that this new, he's not trying to lose weight (pretty thin) he's not athletic by nature nor has We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. My husband didn't come to many of the ultrasounds or OB appointments due to work travel but the 20 week ultrasound he rearranged work travel to be at - and we were team green. We talked for hours through the night and came up with a plan. Me (f34), my husband Hunter (m37) suffered from fertility problems, we recently decided to get a surrogate who's a friend of a friend. Me: “no u u”. AITA for not doing anything for christmas this year and making my husband livid? Not the A-hole. Sounds like there's some confusion between her and his husband about expectations in marriage. Me (f29) and my STBH (m33) are getting married soon. AITA for going on vacation without my husband? Not the A-hole. Both of our mothers are dead unfortunately. Now we've been arguing about my wedding dress, This might sound ADMIN MOD. Your husband hurt your brother, pulling you away from what should have been about him and his wife. Not the A-hole. My bff (28f) and I (28f) have a friendship that goes back 20 years. And you aren’t getting shit from me because that prenup that you signed 5 years ago…”yeah you are fucked”. I F35 wanna begin by saying that in every holiday me and my husband M33 (we both work decent jobs) set separate budgets for gifts. 3K comments. While I don’t think you should cut down on spending time with the kids, you should recognise that all the time you spend helping doing ‘husband duties’ for your friend, take away from the time you could be spending with your wife and it’s clearly impacting your marriage. So for the past month, my (36) husband (39) has waking up at 5 every night to have a walk. It's a messed up conflict between my brother and my husband and by extension me. I will be honest, I don’t like Alison. OP’s immediate refusal of the visit due to an important meeting is a boundary stomp on husband’s part. Wedding planning has so far been going alright except for few things he and I argued about like the venue and flower girl. 2hrs later, the kids came in and said they were hungry. Tell him that you two need to come up with a date that she moves out and stick to it. My husband is devestated for his best friend's loss, (they're so close that he sees him as a friend) understandably so. I love my work, but don't particularly care for housework. throwaways79976. AITAH My husband said It's my fault. These are not your kids so he should be paying you to take care of them. He later said fine and that he was going to cook dinner then go to the party. Jolly_Ad3178. So I'm a stay at home mom with 3 kids. My (37)m husband and I (35)f have been married for 9 years with two children (5)f and (8)m. The way AITA acts you would think getting a divorce is just as simple as saying it outloud Join the community of moral philosophers and share your dilemmas. Back in March, I told him I would plan most of it, where to go, and what to do, all he has to do was make sure he had the week off and We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Your husband is stealing from people that are less fortunate. I (39f) am married to Dave (44m), and he has a son named Avery (19m) and an ex wife named Dianna (42f. It's Krxstxl. AITA for not giving my Husband’s sister MY puppy. My husband (42m) and I (35f) had a son last year, so this is my first Mother’s Day. He had lung cancer and was terminal. My husband and I just got a puppy a few days ago and thought it would be fun to bring My husband has known Clara since she was a baby and he treats her like his own little sister. Your husband is most likely getting paid to house the kids, which is why he doesn't want them in foster care. My sister (20) got out of a terrible relationship and moved in with me and my husband and brought her 5 months old son, she's dealing with a handful of issues from ppd to depression. OP, your husband is MASSIVELY immature. AITA for causing a scene when my husband's family showed up for dinner again. AITA for demanding my husband to pay me the $1000 dollars he spent behind my back? Not the A-hole. TIL how to make Reddit paragraphs. OP, tell your husband it's time his sister moves out. (2) I might be the ah for showing up without telling him and since he said he didn't feel comfortable with me being there and needed space. I told him absolutely not, and insisted that he cook for them or order takeout. Check out our upcoming Reddit Talk with Iliza Shlesinger on Nov. Throwawaystroub. AITA for snapping at my SIL after she kept insulting my husband? Not the A-hole. You’re not divorcing him because he wants a son, you’re divorcing him because he has said some truly unforgivable things. I would go to the food bank with his photo and speak to the person in We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. She was the one pushing a human being out of her body - she needed support and help, and instead of doing everything he could to make sure she was supported when he couldn't be there, he cut her off from all support and dictated what she could and couldn't do. I had the opportunity to provide childcare for 2 neighborhood kids but he shot the opportunity down, saying the money I'd make is insignificant. From the sounds of it, he's also a narcissist and teaching your sons to be misogynists. Your husband has been patient enough but your grown up adult sister is still acting five years old and entitled over her own stupid mistake. My husband's family came over for dinner the second time this week. He created a scene because i can guarantee that the conversation became about your husband's injury and the emergency. Op’s TA. My husband (33) and I (31) used to have a 2 income home but in 2020 we've lost our home and one of our incomes (his). He then went around greeting guests and I waited for him til the ceremony began. Context: my husband [33] used to be unemployed for a year, he recently started a job at a warehouse. Meaning he ain’t getting shit. He was making it all about him. He was laid off from that job December 2023 and is having ego issues because everybody interviewing him is younger than him. Me: “dude sit with your buddies, I’ll be fine”. Reach out to his wealthy friends and ask them for a $6k loan on behalf of your husband. My late husband "Adam" (M36) passed away a month ago. this could make me the asshole because i this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. I went to get my makeup fixed then came back and saw that both family tables were full. We have our friendship, plus a long time of being couple friends. Lily and I have been dating for around 8 months. Husband: “no u”. I have a daughter Alice (f7) whose mother is my ex-fiancée, Rachel (f29). One of them is this huge house (where we live right now) with a pool and a huge backyard with lots of features. I'm sorry but nothing is going to change for you unless you leave him and the kids. It was too important of a scan from a fetal health perspective for him to miss. Please OP tell us you let people know you were shocked and there shouldn't be anything you can't tell your husband. My husband was sitting with his mom, dad, sisters and the other table had relatives and they were all men. Help keep the sub engaging! Seriously. My husband (27) Been planning a trip for about 4 years with some close friends the trip kept being postponed due to some of his friends having family deaths, financial issues and unfortunate world events. I’m so sorry about your son - please know it wasn’t your fault. Yesterday, and while I was about to do the laundry, I grabbed his work pants and digged my hand in it's pockets to empty them before putting it in the ADMIN MOD. We both work remotely. She knew her husband was an emotional wreck and blew shit up instead of supporting her husband. She’s the most negative, bitter person I’ve ever had to spend more than an hour with. true. Husband: “just take my seat, I’ll sit in coach”. He says he felt guilty letting her struggle while he has all this money he doesn’t use. Ok-Win3088. Her and her husband started dating freshman year in college, and were married about a year and a half ago. I am going to divorce my husband. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I’m not letting my husband buy a house for his ex (2) she’s living in a cramp apartment and their kids are staying with us because they refuse to live there with her. ADMIN MOD. She and her husband are ecstatic, it just sucks that she inherited my parent's stupid propensity to see their children as fashion statements. My husband hasn't stopped grilling me about how I disrespected and undermined him and managed to make our daughter hate him after making him look like the bad guy, I again said he shouldn't have touched the bike, end of the story/// He's called me theif and juvenile for taking money from his savings and being sneaky about it. I (29F) and my husband (30M) have been together for 8 years. Comparing his dad's actions to her husband's might help clarify things. This could make me the asshole because the baby will have very little of their father. Rhewin. Last night, she revealed to the family the name of her daughter. This then needs to be communicated to her. He robbed you of special time with your family. My sister is pregnant with her first child. My husband comments on my body too and calls my stretchmarks my battle scars and it’s legitimately good natured teasing. Before we got married we had a conversation about what we wanted from each other and what some of our main goals were. My egg was used so no worries in this regard We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. After I finished laughing I said to my dear husband that the divorce papers will be delivered to you by tonight. UPDATE: AITA for snapping at my In-Laws for saying my husband "ruined" his life? UPDATE. Here’s how this would go in my marriage for comparison: Husband: “we’ll make it work financially so you can sit with me”. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. u/husbandlie you are a great mom. Absolutely. Not a ADMIN MOD. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here My husband was laid off in late 2020, got a job in May 2021. I’m frugal, too, and I like to save money where I can. So, My (f30) brother "Jacob, m33" and my husband "Connor, m32" have been friends since college. During the week with talk to our kids and asked them (without being obvious) how they have been treated by their grandparents; we got positive responses (they have been treated well, to be And Im of the belief that pets are our children. Don't know if that job is still possible but you have to try. This. Find out if you were wrong or right in an argument. Judgement_Bot_AITA. . Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. I hope he divorces your ass. I've never been married before him but he was married twice and has 6 kids. Allowing the kids to run upstairs after being told that they are not allowed upstairs is a boundary stomp on husband’s part. AITA for asking my husband if he did anything for Mother’s Day. We opted not to find out the sex of the babies. Her family had a lot of financial problems, while my husband has a very high earning career. She has a negative opinion about everything, but We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Your husband can pay them back while you get a divorce. r/AmItheAsshole. BigCoffeePot999. After that I paid for my food and left. They are not a human being. She's not the devil for not instantly divorcing her husband, and she's not excusing his behavior either. She decided she wanted to have her birthday party at a local river (we live in the Midwest). First, call a lawyer. She left behind 2 kids nearly same age as my kids (6 &9). Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Aged 18 I married my high school sweetheart. They live several states away so in addition to meeting him for the first time it was also the first time I had seen my cousin in a few years. AITA for telling my gf that she acted inappropriately and that she should apologise to my ex? I (m29) have a girlfriend, Lily (f26). Second, call the job back and tell them your husband screwed up and that you did not cancel the interview and you're still interested in the job. I use coupons, buy store brand vs name brand for some products, etc. Also, he's definitely cheating on you. And the next time she touches your food, she needs to be out that day. My husband (32m) and I (29f) planned a week vacation to New Orleans (in the US). A lady at the bank told the husband about the 100k and she gave him access to it even though he wasnt on the account. Losing a husband is losing a whole man, a whole lifetime, somebodies child, somebodies father, a husband, the man of the house, a million memories, a life partner, a teammate, gone. He uses his own money to buy gifts and I do the same. qd bp dp ih hh cd zk fi ru fj